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Q I am 15, and my hormones are raging like crazy. I have recently learned why, not that, but why masturbation is wrong and that it is a condemnable mortal sin that will end me up in hell if I do it since I know that it is seriously wrong. I have therefore resolved to stop, and despite the fact that I have abstained from it for a few days, it is growing very difficult for me to not do this. I have read what has been said on this website about putting other things on my mind and praying to God when I have the urge to masturbate, and I try to do that, but what else could I do? However, having also read the other questions, I've learned that lust for sex, doing something that you know will lead to arousal, and basically doing anything before you are married is wrong. I feel like I can't have a love life anymore. To what extent can I be attracted to a boy without breaking God's law?
- Sara
 
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First and foremost remember that our God is a loving and merciful God.  Everything else must be seen within that framework!

As human beings our sex drive is very strong.  All of us have to make the effort to not let our desires get the best of us.  We all need to work on discipline and self control.  These are gifts that we recieve in greater abundance the more we ask God for them.  Keep praying and asking for the help that God is so anxious to give you!

Don't feel bad because sexual thoughts cross your mind.  You cannot help that.  And there is no sin in the fact that a thought pops into your head.  The key is to make the effort not to run away with those thoughts.