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You'll know before you get married. Hardly anybody can really "afford" to have children!! If a couple really, really, really can't, then it's not the right time to get married. If a couple experiences financial reverses after marriage and it seems irresponsible to bring a child into the world, this doesn't mean no sex ever. It means that it would wise to avoid the woman's most fertile times.
I wish you a life of prosperity and the opportunity to have many children to love and nurture. But if the cupboards are bare, it would be good to get counseling from a priest or a group called NFP, Natural Family Planning. Your diocesan offices would be able to put a couple in touch, I think. The Internet's always a good resource in such cases, too.
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